Not a good day today. People in therapy are concerned for me, I’m concerned for me. It has been suggested I call the crisis hotline asap, as I’m rapid cycling and having some issues. I literally cycled between happiness, anger, sadness, and depression in the matter of 60 minutes today. It’s fucking ridiculous. I’m irritable, restless, and impatient.
Today, a counselor told me it’s because I have expectations of people, and I shouldn’t. Is it wrong to expect people to say what they mean, and mean what they say? Or is that tolerance? Is it wrong for me to believe when people tell me they are going to be there for me and then they aren’t? I mean, what in the actual fuck? I’m sick of it. I’m sick of people-ing. I just want to sit in the sun until I roast like a pepper and then swim in the pool. That is literally all I can manage right now. However, I somehow managed to talk my alcoholic step-brother into going to family night meeting tonight, so I have to go through with that, because the last thing I want to be is a hypocrite. Although, I think he’s trying to wiggle out of it, as we speak.
I feel like the only thing that brings me solace lately is writing and reading blogs. I’m completely obsessed with all things mental health and substance abuse related. Danielle doesn’t think that’s the healthiest of things, but at least I’m learning. I tried making a new friend, and look how that turned out.
I finally gave in and sent Ron a text after 3 days of silence (on his part) and needless to say, I haven’t heard back. Not a single word. So, me expecting to hear back from someone who supposedly cared about me is wrong? It fucking hurts. Again. It hurts getting ignored and discarded. I’m sick of it. My family was right, and that’s a bitter pill to swallow. Lesson learned: no new relationships…..maybe ever. It’s really hard for me, because it started to feel so good knowing I had the support Ron offered, and now I don’t. It was nice having someone call me beautiful and sweeping me off my feet. Who doesn’t like that? I guess it probably comes down to the one thing all men want. I’m so dumb. Such a fool. No more. Not again.
The only way I know how to not have expectations of people, is to not have people in my life. Problem solved. Fuck it.